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How to Fight Nice With Your Partner and Resolve Issues

Sometimes we can't help but to fight with our partners when arguments come up that upset us or things happen that we feel we need to discuss. But there is a right way and a wrong way to fight with your partner. The wrong way will not help you get issues resolved in your relationship, but using these tips for fighting nice (the right way) you will find that both partners get heard and are able to efficiently fix problems.

Never attack your partner when your angry. Fighting nice means being respectful to one another. If you are mad at your partner, let him know, but in a nice way. Try sitting your partner down and explaining to him why you're upset. Did he leave the house a mess? Was he out late the night before? Did he forget to feed the animals? Whatever your reason for being upset with your partner (be it small or large) simply tell him nicely. Start by saying, 'I'm upset that...' and finish with whatever it is your partner did or didn't do. Speaking kindly, rather than attacking and yelling, will get you a lot further and avoid heated arguments.

Never accuse your partner. When you are angry at your partner try not to accuse him by using words such as 'you never' and 'you always'. Using the word 'you' when speaking to your partner, points the finger solely at him and makes him defensive immediately. While it is understandable that your mad and your partner needs to know this, it's also important for him to hear you out. Try using words like 'I feel like you...', 'Sometimes, I think you...', or 'I am upset because...'. By taking the blame completely off your partner and using the word 'I', you are saying that it's you who feels a certain way and you're giving him the sense that you are open to taking partial blame. After all, it takes two people to be wrong. No one person is right all the time.

Allow your partner the chance to explain when your upset. Don't keep yelling at your partner after you've told him you're upset. Simply explain that your hurt, angry, mad...at something he did or didn't do, and stand there quietly; letting him tell you why a situation happened. When you allow your partner a chance to respond to your anger, you're opening up the lines of communication and learning to fight nice. Fighting nice means give and take. You tell your partner how you feel and then allow him in return to explain himself and how he feels. If you yell and complain about your partner and the situation, it will only cause the argument to get worse, and nothing will be resolved. Try to listen as best you can and keep your voice calm.

Tell your partner what you'd like from him next time. In order to fight nice and resolve issues, your partner needs to know why something upset you and what he can do next time so it doesn't happen again. Some people do not realize when they've upset someone. This tends to happen a lot in relationships because either one partner or the other expects that their mind will be read or that a partner will just know their needs. Fighting nice means expressing your needs and wants in a positive way so that your partner knows what you expect out of them. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want so that you aren't let down or angry again next time. Just make sure to be nice when asking.

Be sure to apologize if you upset your partner with hurtful words or actions. In fact, fighting nice means avoiding hurtful words or actions if possible. While it's easy to say things in the heat of the moment, it's impossible to take it back after all is said and done. So try to be the bigger person and say your sorry. A meaningful apology and even a hug help to make fights between partners better. When you can let go of the fight by making amends with each other, your relationship will be even stronger. Both partners will recognize that your relationship is strong enough to get over obstacles and that you can make it through just about anything. Just remember to treat your partner the way you'd like to be treated and apologize for mistakes if you were in the wrong.

CHANGE YOUR WEAKNESSES INTO YOUR POWER

If you’re content with the best you have done as an athlete, you’ll never be the best you can be. If you really want to get better, you’ll go out of your way to change your weaknesses into your strengths. It’s not easy, but it’s an exciting challenge that will make you grow as an athlete and as a person. First, determine what your weaknesses are. Strong competition will bring that out. Analyze where you need improvement. Then, turn that weakness into your strength. The best athletes work hard to overcome their weaknesses. It’s fun, and easy, to practice your strengths because those are what you do best. However, the only way to get better is to work long and hard on your weaknesses in order to turn them into strengths. It all boils down to how good you really want to be.

When you make a mistake, you can do one of two things. You can ignore it – deny it and convince yourself it wasn’t a mistake. This way, you’ll keep making the same mistake over and over. Or, you can admit your mistakes, learn from them and have the courage to test yourself again in competition. This way is more risky, but also more rewarding. Admitting you have a weakness and not working on it is just as unproductive as hiding your mistakes. You won’t improve either way. You’ll continue to work on what you like to do, which is what you’re the best at. The result is your strengths will get stronger, while your weaknesses will get weaker. You’ll never reach your full potential this way. You may be able to get by in the short run on your raw talent or ability; but in the long run, you have to improve your weaknesses if you expect to win. Take tennis, for example.

You may be able to slide by sometimes by hitting your forehand, when you should be hitting your backhand. But when it’s set point and your opponent hits a shot deep to your backhand, what are you going to do?

I’ll tell you what you’re going to do – you’re going to lose.

When the game is on the line, there’s no substitute for skill. When your skill is perfected, you’ll have no weaknesses. You won’t be vulnerable; you’ll be in control and ready to counter anything your opponent might throw at you.

Don’t misunderstand us. We’re not saying you should work on your weaknesses until they no longer restrict you. We’re saying you should work on them until they’re the stronger part of your game. So they become your strengths.

Take a great running back with concrete hands. He worked hard to get the softest hands in the league. Now he’s the best receiver and still a great runner. What do you have? An all-pro, a future Hall of Famer. Why? Because he expanded his opportunities and didn’t settle for less than he could be.

This holds true for athletes in all sports: The pitcher who can’t field; the golfer who drives shots 250 yards down the middle, but can’t putt; the basketball player who goes to the boards like Doctor J., but can’t make a foul shot; the tennis player who has great ground strokes, but is afraid of coming to the net; and the wrestler who is great when he’s on top but is hopeless when he needs to escape. To get the competitive edge over your opponents, make the weakest part of your game the strongest.

How to Find the Perfect Relationship

MR.James Obedi

Finding a relationship in todays society can be a full time job, let alone a relationship that will last a lifetime.

The more you look and try to find the love of your life the less likely you are going to find it. By distracting yourself from life with this task, you are missing what could be right in front of you.

You choose to look past the present in search of something that you may already have. By diverting yourself from the present moment, you could be missing out on the very opportunity that you are in search of. It is true what they say, "What your looking for comes when you least expect it." So take this little piece of advice and use it to your advantage. Dont waste your life looking for love, let love find you.

When you look for love, all you will find are dead-end relationships, but when you least expect it the love of your life will come along at the perfect time. It is found to be a fact that the more you try to satisfy a relationship or even find a relationship, the less success you will see.

When you are trying to find something you are not yourself and no one sees you, but when you are being yourself, someone will see you. The real you. And this is what you want them to see. This is how you will find the perfect relationship, by letting it come to you. Its as simple as that!

Good sex tips

If you want to make the most of your sex life, these tips are a good way to start.

As long as you're talking and listening to each other, you're well on the way to a healthy sex life. However, even the most contented lovers can have fun trying new things, so here are some ideas.

1. Build anticipation

Agree on a period of time, say one week, when you won’t have orgasms or penetrative sex. At first, allow only kissing and holding each other. Gradually move on to touching and stroking each other, masturbation, oral sex, or whatever feels right for you. But avoid orgasm. At the end of the week, allow yourselves the pleasure of orgasm, through any kind of sex you like. This week may help to heighten your senses to all the other wonderful feelings you can share when you’re having sex.

2. Massage

Massage can help you have very sensual sex. As part of foreplay, it's a great way to start things off slowly, and relax into the feel of each other’s skin as your arousal intensifies.
But a simple massage that doesn’t lead to sex can also work wonders for your sex life. A non-sexual massage will familiarise (or refamiliarise) you with your partner’s body, reduce stress and reaffirm the intimacy between you. If you don’t want a massage to lead to sex, discuss this with your partner so you can avoid any misunderstanding.

3. The senses

Good sex can embrace all the senses, not just touch. Scented oil for a massage (don't get oil on a latex condom as this can damage it), music and candles for soft lighting can all be erotic, as well as listening to your partner’s breathing and the sounds that they make. Taste each other as you kiss. If you both want to, you could mix food and sex - feed each other something delicious and juicy, such as strawberries.

4. Whisper

Whether it’s sweet nothings or your sexy intentions, whispering things to each other can add an extra thrill. It doesn’t have to be during foreplay or sex. A sexy phone call leave both of you looking forward to the event for hours or days.
This works with texts and emails too, but make sure you send them to the right person, and remember that your employer has the right to access your work email.

5. Masturbation

Masturbation, by yourself or with your partner, can be a bonus for your sex life. Exploring your own body and sexual responses means that you can share this knowledge with your partner. Masturbating your partner can help you learn more about what turns them on. It can also be a useful option if one of you doesn’t feel like full penetrative sex, or if you have different levels of desire. Talk about it with your partner.

6. Sex toys

If you and your partner both feel comfortable with it, using sex toys can be an arousing thing to do together. Some people use vibrators (and more) as an enjoyable part of their sex life. If you’ve never thought about using sex toys before, how do you feel about trying them? You can buy them online or in sex shops.

7. Read a book

There are many books that have exercises and ideas to help you achieve a fulfilling sex life, whatever your age, gender, sexual orientation or taste. If you’ve never thought about buying a book about sex, why not do it now? You might wish you’d done it years ago.

8. Share fantasies and desires

Everyone has unique fantasies, tastes and preferences when it comes to sex. From earlobes to ankles, hairline to hips, pirates to picnics, don’t be afraid to talk about them. If you and your partner know about each other’s turn-ons, you can make the most of them.

9. Keep it clean

We’re talking about your general hygiene. You don’t have to keep yourself super-scrubbed: a certain amount of sweat is fine, as long as it isn’t overwhelming. But be respectful towards your partner, and wash every day to prevent nasty smells and tastes.

10. Relax

Sex with a loving partner can be one of the most beautiful and intense experiences in life. Sometimes the best sex happens when you’re not worrying about making it exciting or orgasmic. Relax with your partner, and great sex may come and find you.

Never Give Up

Believe In Your Dreams
Don’t sell yourself short. In life there are going to be many people who will try to bring you down and tell you what you want to achieve is not possible. Don’t let anyone destroy your dreams.

Prove Yourself
You don’t want to be known as someone that is weak and gives up. Go out there and prove yourself to the world and to yourself. You CAN and WILL achieve what you set out to do. The only time you fail is when you give up.

You Deserve To Be Happy
Don’t ever let anybody tell you otherwise. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to have success. Keep that mindset and never give up until you reach your destination!

Get Rich or Die Trying
Like Fiddy (50 cent) says, “Get rich or die trying”. 50 Cent is rich, he made it (although he did get shot 9 times). Face your fears and don’t take the easy way out by giving up.

You Deserve To Be Happy
Don’t ever let anybody tell you otherwise. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to have success. Keep that mindset and never give up until you reach your destination!

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